The best way to get over a man is to get under a man. 20/10/2016

said someone somewhere and having looked it up on the internet,cannot trace the origins. Well, if ever I wanted to try this remedy,the best man to get under would be The Doctor.A bit chunky,a wicked smile,unshaven.Sex,sex and more sex is his answer to most questions in his profile. Many women will like him. Not me. I like subtlety,wooing,lingering long smiles, gentle gestures,the odd touch promising heaven. Not the blatant" common look at me and let's roll "invitation. For me the nicest man is The Builder. Alone for 8 years, a widower,I feel,but have not yet asked. I think if there ever was a woman for him to fall in love with just from the photograph, I am that woman.No-one has reacted to it as he has.He likes my hair,my eyes,my smile, my face,my everything.He thinks,I am lovely,beautiful and something else I can't remember. And he loves absolutely everything about my profile, like after like after like to each and every entry,fifteen of them. He sent me five questions,my answers pleased him. I was surprised how comprehensively and frankly we all were assessed.They seemed to get me spot on.So if they got my personality so right,I presume they hit the nail on the head with the others,too. I need someone who has the means and the freedom to travel with me.My husband was ill for eight years.I looked after him without complaint.He passed away six and a half years ago. Finally somehow the pain has been stored away,not gone,just put under a lock and key.I still have commitments and responsibilities,but by next summer they will be gone and then I will have the freedom to travel,travel,travel. The builder wouldn't be able to do that. And I cannot go back to the way my life used to be.It took me so long to begin to live again.And now I am ready to spread my wings and fly and I so much want someone to fly with me. Would I be able to compromise? The Builder wants us to meet. The answer is a firm NO. I want to exchange messages for several weeks first without any expectations.I want to consider how/if it would work should we meet and wanted it to progress. And if the answer is it would not work,then it is best not to meet.He seems a kind man,with heart full of love and longing and I wouldn't want to hurt him.